#youve got mail #movies #i have mixed feelings #hey victoria something youre doing is hurtful #cue a huge backlash #then shed call fire #now i wouldnt be allowed to speak about what hurt me #once she literally stormed out on me #i broke down and she called her therapist #validating abusers is a bad idea #as a male victim of abuse #how can i say that validation is bad #thats the trap female abusers can use against their victims #its fucking hard

#youve got mail #movies #i have mixed feelings #hey victoria something youre doing is hurtful #cue a huge backlash #then shed call fire #now i wouldnt be allowed to speak about what hurt me #once she literally stormed out on me #i broke down and she called her therapist #validating abusers is a bad idea #as a male victim of abuse #how can i say that validation is bad #thats the trap female abusers can use against their victims #its fucking hard

#youve got mail #movies #i have mixed feelings #hey victoria something youre doing is hurtful #cue a huge backlash #then shed call fire #now i wouldnt be allowed to speak about what hurt me #once she literally stormed out on me #i broke down and she called her therapist #validating abusers is a bad idea #as a male victim of abuse #how can i say that validation is bad #thats the trap female abusers can use against their victims #its fucking hard

#youve got mail #movies #i have mixed feelings #hey victoria something youre doing is hurtful #cue a huge backlash #then shed call fire #now i wouldnt be allowed to speak about what hurt me #once she literally stormed out on me #i broke down and she called her therapist #validating abusers is a bad idea #as a male victim of abuse #how can i say that validation is bad #thats the trap female abusers can use against their victims #its fucking hard

#youve got mail #movies #i have mixed feelings #hey victoria something youre doing is hurtful #cue a huge backlash #then shed call fire #now i wouldnt be allowed to speak about what hurt me #once she literally stormed out on me #i broke down and she called her therapist #validating abusers is a bad idea #as a male victim of abuse #how can i say that validation is bad #thats the trap female abusers can use against their victims #its fucking hard

#youve got mail #movies #i have mixed feelings #hey victoria something youre doing is hurtful #cue a huge backlash #then shed call fire #now i wouldnt be allowed to speak about what hurt me #once she literally stormed out on me #i broke down and she called her therapist #validating abusers is a bad idea #as a male victim of abuse #how can i say that validation is bad #thats the trap female abusers can use against their victims #its fucking hard

#youve got mail #movies #i have mixed feelings #hey victoria something youre doing is hurtful #cue a huge backlash #then shed call fire #now i wouldnt be allowed to speak about what hurt me #once she literally stormed out on me #i broke down and she called her therapist #validating abusers is a bad idea #as a male victim of abuse #how can i say that validation is bad #thats the trap female abusers can use against their victims #its fucking hard